Humbling to watch
Humbling to watch
Stephen Wiltshire MBE,Hon.FSAI,Hon.FSSA. Quite an impressive title and a tongue twister too.
I'm the sister of an autistic, artistic savant who had it hard in the beginning with many unanswered questions. I feel on my part this is a 'celebration' of the person my brother has become, reaching this milestone in his life, recognising his highlights and many fortunate journeys that has shaped him into the man he is today.
In the beginning life was a 'curse', autism was unheard of and no books or schools existed to cater for such individuals diagnosed with the condition. People were cruel, unkind and considered such people as retards (a term still unbelievably used today). When Stephen finally was accepted in a school that helped individuals with various conditions, taught by people who were sympathetic and nurturing, it was the first step to a positive journey, that in time could only get better, thought with plenty of glitches along the way.
Over the years the many questions bestowed upon me from intrigued, fascinated or demanding fellows really challenged me, and made me seek deeply into my thoughts. Some made me angry, irritated, other even felt insulting. Still, I have always answered them. In any case, they all had a purpose and they all had a right to a 'reply'. I realised I needed to reboot, analyse my thought process in order to benefit, uplift and present Stephen in his true form.
I have much love and devotion for my brother Stephen and through him have learnt to become strong, less fearful and positive. My weakness has been derived from being misunderstood, that caused depression, confusion and bitterness at times. As a young girl growing up with Stephen - whose condition I knew nothing about or remotely understood -, definitely had its challenges.
I couldn't even begin to explain my pain. How could I explain myself, who would even listen to me after all? I'm just a child myself.
It was trial and error back then, and as a family, we were learning the ropes too!
Fast forward and years later there are brilliant centres, schools and the necessary help to better the quality of lives for both the autistic children and their families. Something I begged for many years ago as I had felt, we were misrepresented.
Our downfalls were tests of strengths, motivation, not be defeated, and in return we were able to rise. This was necessary. I realise this now although at the time not so much! As a family we did not ever know what would happen, but felt strongly to give as much support, encouragement, nurture and guide to his talent, with no pressure. Naturally, Stephen decided and still does as to when, where, and how!
My brother Stephen may not be a public speaker, however his drawings do that for him, speaking in volumes, revealing his personal observation, expressing his world and the way he sees it. The scenes, shapes, lights, texture and detail cleverly form images we can all relate to. The ability to insert his personality and produce an artwork that feels complicated at first, despite his seemingly simple effort, along with the passion and great accuracy he fuses into his craftmaship that marvels us all.
Thinking silently outside the box, showing the clarity in each line drawn, being CONFIDENT WITHIN HIMSELF and perfecting his skills through maturity. Always. Every time.
Stephen's magnetism is addictive, the smile in his eyes and the ability to connect with others without really connecting is heart warming. The people he meets and the lasting impression he leaves with every single person, is just humbling to watch.
He is gifted, that we know for sure!
As his sister, it is the acknowledgment that I receive for him that are simply beyond words, as I once thought his goal might be unachievable. Our journey so far has been epic. I will contrinue to watch his space evolve as we continue our story together, and make newer memories.
Stephen's life so far has shown endurance, patience, strength and determination. His so called 'disability', if anything, it has been more about his ABILITIES, his self-belief and his continuity to be an ever better growing version of himself. Proudly reaching the age of 50, I see many more to come. I am ever so grateful to him and those who have watched him grow and develop into the fine man he is today. I have had the privilege to be by his side and observe his unique talent, charisma with many more episodes to come.
I am sure Stephen would agree with me when I say 'Thank You' to all his followers and the many people who have been inspired by his efforts and his artworks. Whether meeting the influental ones, creating or being presented with opportunities, eventually, it is the people from all walks of life that are most relevant to my brother's life.
I hope my little essay gives a clearer insight to who Mr. Wiltshire is. The aim has been to draw up a finer view in the mirror, which reflects his incredible passion for architecture, having achieved so many awards and accolades throughout his wholesome career. I can only gather a few of his amazing achievements, the list is just too long to mention, but mention I will, and with pride, that I will never meet another soul who has made such a meaningful difference to us in this world.
I therefore hereby, with great honour, salute Mr. Stephen Wiltshire, my brother. Congratulations!
Happy 50th birthday to you for reaching this important milestone in your life. Continue to shine as always.
Your loving sister,
Annette
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